anamethatisnt

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Privacy in Family photo sharing?

I would pair a Synology NAS with at least one, preferably two, usb disks to make local backups to with the built in Hyper Backup - losing the whole family picture archive hurts and usb disks are cheap. It doesn't seem possible to make a read only QuickConnect connection so beware of that if there's to be non techie users connecting.

Personally I use dyndns and openvpn (if I rebuilt today I would look at Wireguard instead of openvpn as a vpn solution) as I prefer not relaying my traffic through services outside my self hosting. That would require you to aid your non techie family members with the initial configuration on their end though.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Privacy in Family photo sharing?

Synology has QuickConnect which makes external access easy without dyndns/static ip. I haven't used it myself.
https://kb.synology.com/en-global/DSM/tutorial/share_File_Station_files_without_DSM_account

Another option is to create a Microsoft 365 Business tenant, with a single Business Basic license you get 1TB OneDrive storage and 1TB Sharepoint storage - their ToS says not to use customer data in AI training.
Unless you already know how to manage it this is probably as cumbersome as selfhosting though.
I have no idea about their ToS against non business licenses, so this assumes spending for a business basic license.

If you aren't behind CGNAT you can use dyndns to get around not having a static ip if you want to get into selfhosting with proper external access. I doubt you'll have the time with a newborn though. :)

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Privacy in Discord alternatives

Elements first self hosted tier is Enterprise at a minimum of 100 users with a cost of $10/month per user.
I would rather look at selfhosting Synapse as it's the only Stable Matrix Homeserver release at the moment.
https://github.com/element-hq/synapse
https://matrix.org/ecosystem/servers/

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Privacy in Discord alternatives

There isn't a 1:1 app for Discord imo.
Selfhosting a teamspeak3 (ts3) server solves the voicechat.
Signal works great for text chats especially now that you don't need to give other end users your phone number.
Then I would probably look at hosting a web forum for adding calendars and other planning tools. There should still be possible to show current ts3 users on that site too.
For open source projects codeberg for code repository/issues/feedback.
I completely understand those who use Discord for ease of management, as time taken to host the above is time taken from the actual project.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Privacy in Firefox DuckDuckGo Privacy Essentials Extension NOT injecting CSS for Google Ads

It is used to replace empty spaces left by Google Ads, more info here:
https://old.reddit.com/r/duckduckgo/comments/14r3vde/does_duckduckgo_privacy_essentials_firefox_uses/

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Technology in "How to help someone use a computer.", a guide from 1996

Computers often present their users with textual messages, but the users often don't read them.

So many times I've just been a fancy TTS (Text to speech) assistant.
End user: Sends MMS of error message.
Me: Calls end user and reads the error message out loud.
End user: Oh! Thanks! Problem solved.
Me: No problem, have a good day.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in Proxmox Host Terrible Upload Network Speeds

If you liveboot Fedora or something with USB - how's the upload then?
Should be a quick way to determine if it's software or hardware based.

edit - Seems that others have had upload troubles with latest Proxmox and fixed it by downgrading:
https://old.reddit.com/r/Proxmox/comments/19d0bf7/slow_upstream_thru_proxmox81/

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in What advice can you give to a beginner?

So… no need for a DE :)

No real need for me to remove it either, but your point stands. :)
https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/b20ad216-2b1c-4e35-bf73-4720206ff6f8.png

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in What advice can you give to a beginner?

Cockpit
I do know about and use Cockpit with said virtual machine manager but I mostly use it as a shutdown/boot/restart app in my phone and a convenient service monitor and log viewer when troubleshooting.

Wireguard/OpenVPN
I really should try out Wireguard sometime but currently OpenVPN is fast enough for my bandwidth and I was already proficient with setting it up before Wireguard.
The WebUI definitely looks useful.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in What advice can you give to a beginner?

For linux this is as easy as script <filename>, ex:
[user@fedoragaming ~]$ script 20240313InstallingJellyfin.log
Script started, output log file is '20240313InstallingJellyfin.log'.
[user@fedoragaming ~]$ exit
exit
Script done.

edit: and for Windows I recommend using putty, it can also save sessions to logs.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in What advice can you give to a beginner?

My Debian Hypervisor do have a DE (GNOME) to be able to easily access virtual machines with virt-manager if I mess up their networking, my Debian VMs run CLI only though.

Regarding your last section I agree strongly - I only expose my vpn with no other incoming ports open. You also don't need to invest in a domain if you do it this way.
I don't mind helping my friends install their openvpn client and certificate and it's nice to not have my services bombarded with failed connection attempts.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in What advice can you give to a beginner?

I definitely agree on starting to tinker right away and to setup snapshot/backup for your stuff and then break it. It also makes one learn how to roll back and restore which is as important as setting up the snapshot/backup in the first place.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in What advice can you give to a beginner?

Basic knowledge that makes selfhosting easier

1. Some networking basics (Firewall, VPN, NAT, DHCP, ARP, VLAN) makes every selfhosters life easier.
   1b. Your ISP router probably sucks, but you might be able to experiment with some static DHCP at least. I'm a fan of the BSD based routers opnsense/pfsense but depending on what router you have you might also be able to run OpenWrt on your existing router.
2. Some management system and filesharing basics (NFS, SMB, SSH, SCP and SFTP).
3. Learning how to set up a backup for your stuff. The hypervisor you choose may or may not have a built in solution.
4. Checking out a few different hypervisors (Proxmox, Incus, KVM/QEMU, etc) and find out which one you wanna dive deeper into.
   4b. Learn how to make a snapshot for easy rollback in said hypervisor ASAP. Being able to undo the last changes that broke a machine is a godsend.
   4c. VM, LXC, Docker and Podman basics (what are they, how do they differ, which one fits my usecase?)
   
   I know Flackbox has a good CCNA (networking) study guide on youtube, but that is way too in depth for a self hosting beginner.
   Here's some introduction to different parts of the network:
   Free CCNA 200-301 Course 06-05: IPv4 Addresses
   Free CCNA 200-301 Course 23-01: DHCP Introduction
   Free CCNA 200-301 Course 12-04: ARP Address Resolution Protocol
   Free CCNA 200-301 Course 21-01: VLANs Introduction
   Free CCNA 200-301 Course 21-04: Why we have VLANs

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in How to drop files from Android to home server?

Yeah getting stuck behind CGNAT IPv4 and no IPv6 would break setting up your own vpn server. That would cause me too look for another internet provider.
I only got 100mbps at home so I'm still running openvpn as I don't gain anything worthwhile from wireguard.

anamethatisnt , 3 months ago to Selfhosted in How to drop files from Android to home server?

I honestly prefer selfhosting my home vpn using Wireguard or OpenVPN.