Nevermind : just got my boot borked on OpenSUSE (which is dumb as the rest of the system is fine but I can't easily just reinstall just the boot) THANKS, TPMs
Edit : "what do you think is stable then ?" idk, fcking Gentoo ? "And what if I don't wanna compile blah blah" use linux lite, may not be rolling and pretty nooby but it is stable and the only one I feel comfortable handing to my mom (amongst the ones I've tried) without that much bloat