What fucking dysfunctional system are you from that shouting is your go to?
Task the kid with something you never taught them how to do
Kid fails because they don't know how to do the thing
Shout at them because you don't know other parenting methods
Do it yourself
Lessons successfully taught to your child: it's normal to not teach your children, it's okay to shout, you can't do anything as well as your parents, you can use your inability to do things to force others to do them
Hey, thank your parents next time you see them, I think they might've helped raise my ex girlfriend.