Well you could also disagree that the earth revolves around the sun, but it doesn't make it so.
MS does force you to use windows. They used anti-competitive practices to place themselves in a monopoly position. They forced their products into schools and governments, they forced it on OEMs, etc.
Gnome devs aren't your slaves. It's their project and they're allowed to have preferences. If you don't like their decisions, cool. Don't use it.
If you don't like what they do, don't install gnome. The same goes for anything else in the FOSS world.