FlickOfTheBean

FlickOfTheBean , 3 months ago

You tear yourself apart!

FlickOfTheBean , 3 months ago

Not with that attitude

FlickOfTheBean , 6 months ago

Ok, this may be wrong history but I could have sworn I saw some article a few years ago explaining that this marriage happened because it was the middle of the great depression and her parents couldn't afford to feed her or something like that.

Makes it worse, imo.

That said, was he a pedo? If sex happened then obviously yes, but I thought this marriage was a charity case more so than a "indulge a pedo who's interested in our daughter during the depression" situation...

I'm gonna have to go find that article at some point...

Edit: welp, I went looking for it, couldn't find it, so everything above this line may be bullshit, but based on the age she had her first child at, yeah I'd say that obviously counts as some pedo shit

FlickOfTheBean , 6 months ago

Ngl, pretty rude to just go poking around in stranger's holes like that without warning lmao (/s/jk/etc)

FlickOfTheBean , 7 months ago

(before I begin my ramble, I understand this is pedantic as hell and nitpicky af. Please know that I'm not calling this meme bad, I'm only looking for someone who is willing to be pedantic about definitions with me for a few rounds or so.)

What exactly does "false solidarity" mean? What exactly is this particular understanding of solidarity either? To my knowledge (aka, I googled it to ensure my vibe check of what solidarity meant was about right), solidarity is something you feel and are essentially motivated to solidarity actions by. To feel it is to experience it, which means, by my understanding of what solidarity is, the term "false solidarity" seems nonsensical.

Like I know what you're saying, I agree, the effect is that the worker works against his own interest for the betterment of the upper classes, but this phrasing seems.... I don't know exactly how to put it, but like inexact in a way that can probably be and should probably be fixed.

I would just call it poisonous solidarity (intentionally avoiding virus/illness words though) or something that simultaneously implies that it's externally put there by an external actor, it's bad for you, it can hurt things and people around you, but it still is legitimate solidarity. Those actions those workers are taking, those votes that they're casting, those are all real actions caused by real feelings. Implying the feelings themselves are false seems to me to be lazy and irrational at this point... If this were the late 1800s, that probably would be the best phrasing we had for this at the time, but language evolves and I don't think this language is illustrative/metaphorical enough to accurately portray the mechanics that our current culture allows us to portray about subjects like this.

But again, I'm not the arbiter of what's true, correct, or what actually should happen, so what do you people think?