I can see how people are tired of the whole "if you don't like it, fork it" argument
This I didn't get. It's literally how FLOSS works and why we have so many distros of Linux, for example. If one doesn't like the philosophy, they don't have to use FLOSS platforms. Noone is entitled to exactly what they want from software that is designed and maintained by volunteers. The software is literally a gift; take it, fork it, or leave it.