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The transphobia stops now

This community is housed on an instance run by two trans women, focused on the needs of the queer and gender diverse community.

We allowed 196 here because we were promised the community is queer and trans inclusive.

If you're here it's because you're aggressively supportive of trans folk. Not middle of the ground, not "just asking questions".

If your response to that is, "yes, but..." then this isn't the instance for you, and by extension, this isn't the community for you.

tl;dr - Unambiguous support and inclusion, or fuck off somewhere else.

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Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to "unambiguous support", as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

StarLuigi ,
@StarLuigi@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

thank you so much for making this clear again ada, it was getting bad :(

GrapefruitDoggo ,

Making all the transphobes come out of the woodwork to get banned with this one~
Appreciate everyone's unambiguous support <3

Lionir ,
@Lionir@beehaw.org avatar

Sad to hear that's been happening on Blahaj. Full and unambiguous support from me! 🐝

ada OP ,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

It hasn't been happening on Blahaj as such. The transphobes come from other instances, but have been posting their BS here

Lionir ,
@Lionir@beehaw.org avatar

Right, that's what I imagined. If there's anything I can help with or if you just want to vent, feel free to DM at any time on Matrix

Rozauhtuno ,
@Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

"Not gay as in happy, but queer as in fuck you!"

TRANS RIGHTS blobhaj, flag, trans, transgender

ShittyKopper ,
@ShittyKopper@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

after seeing this for a brief moment i forgot lemmy supported headings in markdown and assumed it started supporting MFM

i've been spending too much time on calckey firefish

Jimbo ,
@Jimbo@yiffit.net avatar

Thank you, based mod

sneezycat ,
@sneezycat@sopuli.xyz avatar

Thanks for this, honestly it was worrying how many upvotes some transphobic replies were getting.

PersnickityPenguin ,

Damn straight queer.

I'm just your run-of-the-mill white cismale dude, but I know several trans people in real life including an old friend of mine and a 7-year-old kid across the street from me. Everyone deserves respect and dignity of life.

mbryson ,
@mbryson@lemmy.ca avatar

Based.

Thank you for creating a safe space. I'm an ally to the LGBTQ+ community and am happy there's a space not for "everyone", but for those willing to accept trans folk and silence those against them (while having funny posts on it as well).

rustyfish ,
@rustyfish@lemmy.world avatar

Every single transphobe right now:

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/f0f33034-d603-4fbc-a1c6-2f3ad1fb00d0.png

imPastaSyndrome ,

Literally right below this.

cupcakezealot ,
@cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

basically lamb glinahan.

funky_rodent Mod ,
@funky_rodent@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Will spend the next days reporting transphobes if necessary <3
best wishes from Germany

MaryTzu ,

Trans women are women. Girldick is best dick.

Know that you are loved. ^And also sexually objectified. Sorry bout that... ^

-Sincerely a cis lesbian.

Velociraptor ,
@Velociraptor@beehaw.org avatar

Can you explain the girldick thing? I'm a transman and that comes off as one of the many things that are low key alienating in expressions of support, but it's possible I'm just mistaken.

MaryTzu ,

The original reference (which triggered the OP to post) is a cis man saying he wouldn't sleep with a pre op trans woman.

He said something along the lines that girldick is disgusting, I'm saying it's hot.

If that's problematic I can delete (not sure how that works on lemmy though). I would rather hear it from a trans woman though. If you want to discuss, go for it.

Velociraptor ,
@Velociraptor@beehaw.org avatar

Maybe using a cis bigot's words isn't the best way to show trans support. Hurts that you'd rather hear it from a trans woman. I guess this place just isn't for me or people like me. It happens. Pretty depressing though.

ada OP ,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

FYI, the person that you're talking about, is not the reason I made this post, nor were they talking about trans women or girldick.

This whole line of discussion is based on a misunderstanding of the original context I think

Arystique ,
@Arystique@beehaw.org avatar

Heck yeah! Fuck Transphobia!

EremesZorn ,

I'm here because 196 shows up on my feed and I really enjoy the memes.
I also have absolutely no problem with trans individuals or really any lifestyle anyone wants to live that isn't hurting anyone else.
That said, was there an incident recently on here that spurred the creation of this post? Did something go down?
Edit: Changed "bothering" to "hurting" because I frankly don't give a fuck about the feelings of the type of people that are "bothered" by LGBT+.

LeylaaLovee ,

Someone made a comment saying that they'd be down to fuck a trans man if they hadn't transitioned yet because he likes women. It was controversial, but then one of the mods here decided to post a screenshot of that comment on the main, and the people in the comments were fucking horrendous. It's all "I'm an ally, but..." statements. Some of them were fine, but even the best ones were just people taking the opportunity to say that they don't wanna fuck trans people. And that's fine, you don't have to be attracted to trans people at all, but a trans safe space isn't the spot for that discussion at all.

The mod shouldn't have posted what's essentially bait, nor should they have not actually moderated the thread after posting the bait. I'm pretty sure the instance admin ended up having to handle it. The guy who made the original comment is saying it was him, but that's not really what matters. This controversy was more about properly moderating the space than anything.

tonnert ,

Go go go. I’m so sick and tired of the hatred, the ignorance and frankly speaking, the stupidness.

I’m from a culture that is not very forgiving and tolerant, even though on the tin it says we are.

And it took me years to see and understand it. Now that I’ve conquered that ignorance, hell no we are not going to regress!!

RavenFellBlade ,
@RavenFellBlade@lemmy.world avatar

Trans rights are women's rights.

Trans rights are men's rights.

Trans rights are human rights.

If you believe otherwise, you're doing nothing less than questioning the basic humanity of Trans people. And you can fuck right off.

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