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Used to watch Homestarrunner on dial-up.

Would take about 20 to 30 minutes to load a 3-4 minute toon.

Don't miss that part of internet antiquity.

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Back when I was young, I waited in a hot, minimally air-conditioned government building in Tennessee. For nearly 3 hours.

I finally went to the front desk and asked if I was even supposed to be there today, as my name had not been called.

The lady at the desk asked my name, and I gave her my last name, which sounds vaguely foreign. She looked surprised, leaned forward, and whispered "Oh! I'm sorry! I didn't realize you were white!" And immediately ushered me through.

I moved out of that god-foesaken town / state months later.

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Oh no..

They even had art drawn of them!

Brutal.

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As well-thought out as the answer before mine is, here's the scoop:

The Oncler in the newest adaptation was once heavily meme'd as a "Tumblr sexy-man"– an internet bad-boy that folks would write edgy fanfiction about and make thirsty art depicting them, among other things. It was era that people who had that phase look back on and cringe. It is not something that people are proud to remember about themselves.

It was clearly unintentional by OP but once they saw the resemblance, they were filled with deep regret considering the history of the Tumblr-fied-era Onceler.

So comparing OP to the Onceler is bringing up feelings of adjacent cringe, as being compared to a Tumblr-phase-animated-fanfiction-sexyboi-twink really makes your brain scream "OH PLEASE NO" if you remember "those times".

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Know what tipped me off that Lemmy really doesn't get nuance?

There was an article about a ride-share / taxi company that cateted to women and provided drivers who were also women, to make them feel safer getting a ride.

The comments were absolutely venomous, calling it out as "sexism" and how "what's to stop me from identifying as a woman and calling? They can't refuse me!" which.... fuckin' oof.

But I figured out why they're upset: because they want people to be treated equally instead of acknowledging that some people have different needs that may require extra services to level the playing field.

Equality vs. Equity.

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Ohhhh this is why my posts finally came out of the negatives.

Thank you!

SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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Here's a reminder that clergy has never been legally required to report child abuse.

Just throwing that out there.

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So I was once arguing with someone about single-parent households.

They brought up that having both parents in the home is the best option for the child. I argued that if one of the parents is abusive, it's in the best interest of the child to have a single-parent household instead.

They then demanded studies/sources to back up my claim, and berated me when I answered "Are you demanding that I provide scientific proof that not having an abuser in the home is best for the child?"

I just..... ugh......

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"Yeah but if I don't think about it, it's not a problem!"

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Context: Some woman on the internet said she would feel safer spending a night in the woods with a random bear rather than with a random man

Some woman

Not "some woman" — quite a few women. Lots of women.

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It sure did stop quickly once someone dressed as a creepy clown got shot, iirc.

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I think the worst part of it was that they were showing up near grade schools and playgrounds.

SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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"Unpopular opinion" isn't the same thing as "being an asshole".

SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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Currently been watching it in parts!

Get you a friend/partner who is actively excited to learn about niche interests. 🥰

SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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Furries have been around for a long long looooong time.

Have you seen depictions of the old Egyptian gods? Wild.

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My friend is a technical writer and just lost her job because "chat GPT can do what you do!"

She then informed me that she knew 11 other people who got fired due to the same thing. And now those companies are realizing how badly they fucked up and are frantically trying to rehire.

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That's exactly what she told me.

Plus a nice benefit package.

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  • SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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    Don't worry! Modern day makeup can still contain arsenic and lead. Just like the good ol' days!

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    "YoU kNoW tHoSe PiLlS aRe BaD fOr YoU!"

    Cool. Next best option is me being unable to function and longing for death while my brain craves any type of happiness, forcing me to engage in potentially harmful and unhealthy habits to get any hit of happy chemicals that my brain struggles to make naturally.

    I'll keep taking the pills, thanks.

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    I'm postulating a theory as of recent, that people with ADHD, who take meds for ADHD are dependent on them, similar to addiction

    Dependence ≠ addiction.

    Diabetics do not have an insulin addiction.

    The folks who have scolded you are not doing so baselessly.

    When you have chemical deficiencies that affect your brain, people seem much more outspoken about giving their opinion about your affliction. I've heard folks saying "don't do chemo!! These people are just trying to scam you and get your money while killing you!! Maybe you should cut out all that processed food?" Hoo boy. Just.... don't.

    Compound that with folks using our already stigmatized & shortage-prone medication for fun, and it gets worse for us.

    I love finally being in control of my thoughts and finally feeling normal and able to actually pursue the things I want. But I think the desire to be in control of your functions is.... pretty sane. I don't miss the chaos that was my constantly hopscotching thoughts & unwilling body.

    I don't miss the suffering. I'm addicted to "not suffering", probably.

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    It's actually illegal to add money to other people's parking meters (where I live, at least).

    Disgusting that there's laws against it.

    SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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    "If you don't marry a man and birth his children, what are you even good for??"

    Women can't possibly have a purpose beyond that!

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    Reddit is basically a free media content farm & astroturfing paradise, at this point.

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    I can barely imagine the mental and emotional toll it would take on a person to be trans and have to deal with this kind of shit.

    Y'all earned the right to be left the fuck alone and live in peace.

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    Tbf, it's fucking weird to ask a middle schooler about their political leanings.

    SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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    I absolutely adore Moon Channel!

    My favorite is the video "Why Are There No Good Christian Games?"

    It gave so much more clarity to the lifelong issues I've had while growing up Christian.

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    But the gatekeepering of pickles makes them tastier!

    SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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    Here's a fantastic video from an actual lawyer who talks about this case.

    He implies that Bowser isn't necessarily innocent, but he is probably the fall guy for a much larger operation.

    https://youtu.be/j9_1Wl9pjLU?si=tk-6KAjg0FtbJABf

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    I never stated my opinion on the matter. Just restating what a lawyer is saying about the ruling and why it went the way it did.

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    That's pretty gross considering exactly why Medusa was cursed to be the way she was in the first place.

    SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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    My last boss told all his employees to invest in crypto, and I believe all of them put a substantial amount into it. He was a country hick who worked machine repair beside me at their shop. Thought he was hot shit because he was a member of a Facebook Q group and thought he was smarter than everyone else because he "knew secrets on a deeper level". Okay bud.

    I left before the end of the year because he stopped scheduling me over a comment I made about another one of his fucking insane conspiracy theories he liked to spout instead of helping with the workload.

    Then the crypto crash happened. They went out of business 8 months later. Can't imagine why!

    Eat shit, Wayne. Those gals and that kid working under you deserved better, you cunt.

    SharkEatingBreakfast ,
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    Kids can be neat, interesting, and thoughtful.

    Babies are a nightmare of screaming and yuck.

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    Key phrase was "can be". Kids under 9 are just under that age where they're testing boundaries.

    My kid is 12 and the absolute sweetest, best kid ever! He's one of the reason I'll never have another– I'm not risking my sanity with a gamble.

    The little kid phase won't last forever! You can make it through!

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    It is also important to note that when he gave his explanation of why he did it, a large amount of people sympathized with him. And they're not wrong for doing so.

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    The creator of these comics is a Christian, with the message of them being a Christian message/allegory.

    The message here is that if you disconnect yourself from God and try to live independent from God, you lose your purpose and/or are helpless to fulfill your "true purpose" (which, to a Christian, "true purpose" = serving/following God).

    That said: I'd strongly suggest that people stop posting these comics and giving this guy attention. They're meant for Christians and are not really relevant to people outside of that.

    EDIT: I made a (regrettable) visit to the website to satisfy my curiosity and found the title & description:

    Absolute Freedom – God (in control of all things) gives us freedom to choose what to do, but we don't get to choose the outcome.

    Make of that what you will.

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    I've noticed that a lot of men don't know what "natural" even looks like.

    They'll see a woman with foundation, concealer, highlighter, setting, and mascara on and be like "Wow natural beauty. No makeup."

    A lot goes into makeup that isn't just lipstick & eyeliner.

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