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Shou ,

That's not true. You'd have to gauge your eyes out for lusting after a woman. And women? They aren't allowed to reject their husband's sexual advances. Which doesn't sound extreme until it turns out hes got a scat fetish.

Shou ,

Not only that. What if there are multiple aspects to what gay defines. Is it just how much they like the same sex, or also how many fake stories they post online? One can score a 5 on one, and a 4 on the other.

Shou ,

Exactly this. I hate metaphores because they easily corrupt a message, or make nonsense seem sensical. I only use it with NT's because it helps getting something concise across...

Shou ,

Get off your high horse and tell me where I implied that.

What I stated was disliking the use of metaphores. That I use it because it helps fascillitate communication with NT people over what I personally prefer.

Shou ,

I mean. Humans are mid on the asshole olympics.

Just take chimps for example. The males much rather eat their own child after the mother dies, than take care of it themselves. Females only can take care of one child at a time. So they are cool watching an orphan die from neglect or cannibalism.

Take dolphins. The males gang up on females to force her to mate. If she refuses, they drown her.

Zebra's and many other species go out of their way to kill foals just so that the mother goes into estrus sooner. Giving the male a chance to force copulation.

Storks build their nest above croc infesed land/water. This is to scare off predators. They also have the habit of evicting young that are either too weak (due to disease or bullying) or are oo aggressive (too much of a bully to other nest mates). The parents can't feed every chick, especially as they get bigger. So they get rid of some. Resulting in a mutualistic relationship between the croc and stork. It's a lot more common than you'd think.

Lions form coalitions to kill lion cubs, just to get lionesses to stop lactating and go into estrus sooner. Lionesses sometimes kill their own young if they have only 1 cub left. Better kill it, go into estrus and cook up a new batch sooner.

Beachmasters are known to crush newborn elephant seals to death. Simply because they were too close to their mother who just gave birth to it. Ever seen one of these jerks run? It's glorious.

Parasite birds form mobs to destroy nests that managed to evict their chicks.

And insects aren't much better either. Sadly I forget the name of the bug that pins down a female, forces copulation and then throws her out of the tree. I get the pinning part, but the throwing out of the tree bit just seems extra.

Then there is ofcourse rampant cannibalism in insects and spiders. Females produce more offspring if they eat the male. And some spider species, the female turns herself into a meal for her children in a feezing frenzy.

Humans aren't so bad.

Shou ,

It's true that pigs are smarter than dogs. And they make wonderful pets. But we also farm pigs ourselves instead of hunting them to extinction. 3.5 million pigs per day, for 7+ billion humans. Not only that, sallow and bones are used for soaps, candles, biofuel, calcium supplementation and for some reason... making sugar white. That sounds as efficient as eating meat can be. Lots of animals just leave the rest of the carcass to rot. If it wasn't for condors/vultures to fill up the niche and clean up the mess, it would poison the water for everyone. As we see in area's where vultures are threatened.

Plenty of other animals are intelligient, and are killed by other intelligient animals. Take birds. They are pretty damn smart. Ever heard of the shrike bird who impales prey to mark its territory/woo females with food storage displays? The prey is alive upon impaling. Usually dead by the time a female dismembers the corpse. Isn't nature just romantic? Or what about humans being attacked by "dumber" predators. Humans may be intelligient, but it sure doesn't stop a hungry tiger/polar bear/hyena/etc. I don't think murder/hunting an "intelligient" is a good reason to label humans as worse than average. Though I do agree that pigs deserve better housing and space to express natural behaviours. Something mass farms don't allow.

A sea turtle (forgot the name) doesn't seem to eat the roots of the grass, but still pulls all of the plant out of the sand. Making it harder for the plant to grow back. Just like them, we screw ourselves over long-term.

Are we really the worst nature has to offer? I think we aren't per se. I think most animals given the oppertunity would destroy their enviroment, until they screw themselves over and a new balance in the ecosystem forms. Invasive species aren't a menace in the ecosystem they come from, only in spaces they aren't balanced in. We humans still need to adapt, and are lucky to be able to understand the impact we have long term.

Shou ,

Men are so fragile.

Shou ,

It's not always the mother being deceptive.

My mother wanted a child. A family. She was clear about it from the start. My dad didn't. Probably didn't communicate it. He didn't bother using protection either. When my mom got pregnant on the first go, he wanted an abortion. No responsibility.

He tried to hide his autism from my also autistic mother. They didn't understand autism back then. She herself considered aborting me out of fear of having a retarded child. She zoned out for weeks, and when she learned I was a girl, she believed god had blessed her. For she thought girls can't be autistic.

Lo and behold, my sister and I were neglected intellectually, socially, and emotionally. Because they did not understand parents supposed to teach children, not threaten them with a belt when the kid doesn't adhere to their autistic whims/expectations.

We raised ourselves with 0 guidence and am I far behind the average person. They are both not asocial, lonely and happy we exist as a means to reduce their misery.

They should never have had children. Life is a mess.

Shou ,

Thermal protection? Isn't that permanent?

Shou ,

You know what sucks? Unwanted children.

Shou ,

Was that due to animal welfare regulations? Thought it had to do with regulations favoring mega farms and forcing small farms to stop.

Shou ,

What about the bags on the cyclist's steer? Those are goods.

Shou ,

I remember reading The Moon is a Harsh Mistress. Where criminals were sent there to work. Because of this, there were never enough women. Polyamory was the norm. Except the writer showed one man, married to multiple women. No co-husbands.

I only got halfway the book due to the writer's ceaseless complaing about women. So I am not sure if there are co-husbands at all.

Shou ,

This seems to be a recurring trend. Human rights took more blood than ink to write.

Shou ,

Is 60000 bees a lot? Also, how does one estimate the amount of bees?

Shou ,

Exactly. Soulless. Graveyards look far more inviting and fun than a tiled garden.

Shou ,

They do say owners pick pets most similar to them.

Shou ,

There is a difference between a guy staring into the void, and an older guy checking you out. I've experienced both and I don't understand how people manage to confuse the two.

Shou ,

What? No. Just either stuck in a general thinking mood or think about all the things he'd want to do to you

Shou ,

Fuck that's horrible. Yeah. I made eye contact with a guy that lasted too long. We were walking towards each other. He grabbed the back of my head and pushed it down. Wasn't as scary as it sounds. Just disrespectful. I avoid eye contact too. Some people are just evil.

Shou ,

Am a woman. And sorry to hear about your bad experiences. Guess it comes with the territory huh? Older men sure know how to be creeps. And older women too. Cougars are predators after all.

Shou ,

That's fucking disgusting. She wasn't just a creep, but a straight up peado.

Shou ,

People with adhd generally have poor academic performance due to lack of impulse control. Those who do perform are either treated with therapy and sometimes stimulants, or they brute force their way through on pure IQ. Cognitive control is very important in getting shit done regardless of intelligence.

Shou ,

It isn't so bad anymore after you cut 13.

Shou ,

Lol. Made the same mistake too. Snow but sunny. On my way to the gym did I realize I fucked up.

Shou ,

Haha. That's rough. Getting sick isn't okay.

Shou ,

Cult-dropout here. I care.

Shou ,

Ofcourse! It's a lonely road to freedom and personal growth. It's good to see other people make it out and turn out for the better.

Shou ,

Exactly! It's great ice breaker with strangers too

Shou ,

Fuck off mate. Not everyone is born healthy. Some of us have syndromes.

Shou ,

And when a member of high status within their cult turns out to be a peado, they suddenly don't care.

Shou ,

If only my dad could read maps. I drive a lot when we go on vacation together, but often have to do the navigation as well. Read paper maps too since I was a kid because both my parents are horrible at directions. Was basically their tomtom before it existed. I was able to track the position with my finger fairly accurately.

I don't mind navigating, but it sucks that he gets confused by it while insisting he does the navigation. Be it app or paper. I stay quiet and comply unless I expect the detour to be too much. He's got to get the hang of it sometime. Surely.

Shou ,

Same, and I am moderately dyslexic. Enough so that I need to put more effort than normal into writing every word. Shame on everyone who missed it.

Shou ,

Ah okay. Shame on you too, men! Shame on you for wanting to feel desired and experience it through silly fantasy meant to entertain!

Shou ,

Exactly so. Who gives a fuck about a dumb tourist? Sucks for her, but gang rape has been ever present there. Why not protect indian women too?

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  • Shou ,

    I have the opposite. I dislike the excessive fruity smells of feminine deodorant. Plus, I don't nearly sweat as much as man and so I only need a little bit of men's deodorant. That can lasts for ages!

    Shou ,

    That's actually wholesome. Thanks for sharing!

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  • Shou ,

    How are you doing? Still got a headache?

    Shou ,

    The problem isn't all men, but too many men. Whenever I feel misandry bubbling up because of "man did common bad thing again", I think of all my male friends. I love them too much to feel any hate. They are good people. Same goes for most men at my gym. They encourage rather than put down.

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