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DessertStorms ,

I tried so hard to figure that shit out but never managed to actually make anything good (I have zero musical talent), but we had this one friend in the group who had, so they'd always have one of our phones, composing our ringtones lol.. I feel old 😂

DessertStorms ,

If you want to give your kitty companion the best shot at a long comfortable life, keep them indoors, it's as simple as that.
Leads exist, and so do catios and window boxes if you're lucky enough to have the space, they can still enjoy the sunshine and fresh air without risk of them getting run over, attacked by another animal/person, getting injured otherwise. I know I just couldn't bear it if my baby was outside all on her own and got hurt..

DessertStorms ,

Politically Right: “Freedom for everyone at all cost”

Lmmfao...
They don't give a shit about freedom for anyone but themselves (and especially not that of people who aren't white, Christian, cis, straight and abled), their actual motives are having as much power and money as possible.

DessertStorms ,
DessertStorms ,

The only way to get that in our current system is to form a before it's too late.

Why do these people always stop short? They recognise the system is the problem, yet the conclusion they reach is to continue fighting within it, instead of fighting to abolish it. It's just so fucking frustrating...

DessertStorms ,

So they haven't stopped, they're just making sure to cover their asses when they do hand over access/footage..

DessertStorms ,

I am like your friend in that I remember all these small "aside" details from random conversations/situations for years and years later, and I try my best not to do that thing you describe your friend doing because yeah, people really don't like it.. 😂

Can't help what sticks in the brain though (it's definitely not a choice, nor an obsession with any one individual), and it is good to have at least one or two people you can say these things to (maybe not the really embarrassing things), just because sometimes it's nice to have confirmation that you are actually remembering all this stuff that really did happen/was said, and are not just imagining things or losing your mind lol

DessertStorms ,

I need an adjacent meme, a cat tagged "me getting my hopes up" getting slapped in the face by a hand tagged "life"

DessertStorms ,

Nothing like the taste of boot in the morning..

DessertStorms ,

This would only be valid for new-borns, since the implication is that no experience you had before year x, x being a number arbitrarily agreed on a couple thousand years ago by humans, exists. Which could potentially be great trauma-wise, but not really in any other sense.
All those decades of experience (and skills, and trauma..) are vital since they inform and shape the opportunities you not only have access to, but how you can or can't deal with them if you do.

DessertStorms OP ,

It's from the junior version of Great British Bake Off

DessertStorms OP ,

There are other meme worthy bits in that short clip, but her very slight smile and casualness as she said this just got me..

DessertStorms OP ,

The theme of the show was "coronation", it was the final, he was going around asking the kids what they think of the royal family, it was a perfectly appropriate topic. Another kid said she loved them, if we were watching that clip, I doubt we would be having this conversation..

DessertStorms ,

“We left the boxes in the village. Closed. Taped shut. No instruction, no human being. I thought, the kids will play with the boxes!

Jfc, the racism oozing from that statement.. 🤢

DessertStorms , (edited )

Yeah, the whole framing is just so white-saviour/noble savage esque..

E: and before I get a "well how are they supposed to frame it??!1" - "kids given tablets for the first time easily learn not only how to use them, but personalise them too". Simple.

DessertStorms ,

Some royals may die, but it is a risk I'm willing to take.. ¯*(ツ)*/¯

DessertStorms ,

I feel personally attacked by your first paragraph 😂 my parents having got married and had kids because they’re “supposed to” then promptly split up and were more concerned with being known as parents than actually being them, and also being an asexual constantly exposed to ignorant shit (and worse). I guess it's nice to be seen? lol
I also agree with the rest of it, I shared this the other day, I think it relates..

DessertStorms ,

I grew up in it, immersed in it.

exactly, we all have, and still are. To the point where internalised and lateral bigotry are also a thing (again in service of the Imperialist White Supremacist Capitalist Heteronormative Ableist Theistic Patriarchy). There is so much to unlearn and it's ongoing work, the end point being to abolish those systems, but to also stay vigilant that they never return (by nurturing community, solidarity, and justice), so it never actually stops. Unfortunately many people are comfortable enough with the status quo that they aren't willing to take that kind of commitment on (especially one that involves a significant amount of self reflection and discomfort of realisation). Another feature, not a bug..

DessertStorms , (edited )

How about destroying the people actually responsible? You know, like those who gave them those flags and bibles, and created the systems that indoctrinate them in to blindly worshiping both?

And also not being ableist while we're at it.. (E: better link)

DessertStorms , (edited )

Wow, gross.
And also so wilfully fucking ignorant.
Best block of the year so far.

DessertStorms ,

We move right through this type of political posturing.

No. We move right by continuing to participate in the charade. Which is a feature, not a bug.

DessertStorms ,

This is it right here. Housing is a right, not a commodity. Landlords shouldn't exist.

DessertStorms ,

You know shell along with a handful of other companies actively block any other option for us, and hold us captive to their exploitation, right? 🙄

DessertStorms ,

Great, instead of Shell, just buy BP, or Exxon.. Oh wait.. they're up to exactly the same shit, and are all together deliberately holding us captive and keeping any realistic alternative from being accessible to the masses because they know it will replace them..

First remove head from ass, then form opinion..

DessertStorms ,
DessertStorms ,

Great, instead of Shell, just buy BP, or Exxon.. Oh wait.. they're up to exactly the same shit, and are all together deliberately holding us captive and keeping any realistic alternative from being accessible to the masses because they know it will replace them..

First remove head from ass, then form opinion..

DessertStorms ,

Jfc, it's distressing to see how many people buy in to the personal responsibility propaganda and are actively not only licking the boot that's on all our necks, but doing the corporations' dirty work for them, gleefully, ignoring the entire picture (the deliberate spending of many trillions, and holding governments in their pockets to keep us dependant on oil and having no viable alternative) except the tiny little fragment they're comfortable confronting - other individuals. It's both gross and concerning.

DessertStorms , (edited )

like, you know, using your legs instead of a car.

Like, you know, some people fucking can't. I'm literally housebound, have never owned a car, and haven't been on a flight in about 2 decades, I guarantee you consume significantly more oil than I ever could. You really did pick the wrong fucker to make your ableist and exclusionary assumptions about (E: though I LOVE the projection - you assumed I'm against shifting responsibility to individuals because I don't want to change my habits, when in reality it's you who are unwilling to change yours, your habit being punching down instead of up because those at the top told you to).

And you know what, if you disappeared tomorrow and didn't even use any of that oil - that still wouldn't solve a fucking thing (in terms of oil production that is, otherwise if that happened it'd definitely be a more pleasant world lmfao).

Because individual use isn't the fucking problem and would be resolved if the oil companies weren't keeping society hostage for profit. Individual solutions CANNOT solve systemic problems

But sure, whatever helps you continue to blame the little person you can feel superior to, rather than face any real threat to your ego - pointing the finger at those actually at fault (which you feel inferior to because deep down you actually look up to the scumbag owning class), and trying to act against the cause of the problem, not its symptoms.

So I'll make the same suggestion again - first remove head from ass, then form opinion - yours is wrong, and will continue to be no matter how many times you repeat the same propaganda to yourself and others, you pushing it exclusively serves those you claim you want to stop (and your own little ego, of course), the fact is - you are choosing to be an active shill for those exploiting humanity and the planet, but hey, isn't it so much easier blaming other powerless people and convincing yourself you're this brave souled warrior than it is to face reality.. Smmfh.. Self cantered, wilfully ignorant, ableist clown.

TL;DR: the oil companies have spent billions if not trillions on developing a button especially for people like you to press to make you feel like you've acted and give you the warm fuzzies, when in reality all pressing the button does is make them more money, a fact you can easily confirm for yourself, but you don't because that empty dopamine hit and pretence of acting that the oil companies have provided you with just feel too good.

DessertStorms ,

Having and fulfilling adult responsibilities does not make one an adult. Those kids are still kids, and the weight of those responsibilities on a psyche too young to deal with them, not to mention their own and as well as generational trauma, absolutely will catch up with them.

DessertStorms ,

abundant free time will lead to psychological issues most of the time, burying your worries in work is mostly and healthy and increased the quality of life.

jfc.. 🤯🤦‍♀️

DessertStorms ,

The solution is - instead of rejecting technology, which isn't going anywhere and will only progress and can't be stopped, because under capitalism it will lead to workers starving - we reject capitalism.

It's literally the only way that would actually prevent people from suffering (and significantly help the planet, too).

https://www.globallearning-cuba.com/blog-umlthe-view-from-the-southuml/marx-on-automated-industry

https://www.theguardian.com/sustainable-business/2015/mar/18/fully-automated-luxury-communism-robots-employment

DessertStorms ,

People freed from chores fear for their income. Guess it’s about time for universal income. fully automated luxury gay space communism

DessertStorms ,

I'm on pc and assuming I'm seeing the same un-cute one you are. Boooo....

DessertStorms ,

Imagine caring about how anyone else (aside for your intimate partner and/or possibly someone you care for) cleans their own asshole.. 🤯

DessertStorms ,

Looks like a couple of white supremacists from here would feel more at home there though (hey lurkers - from kbin we can see you upvoting the racist blowing their dog whistle, you can't hide)..

DessertStorms ,

Ah yes, the daughter as an object/possession, a cornerstone of misogyny..

DessertStorms ,

Am conflicted - love the sentiment, but hate Nicholson with a passion.. 😂

So I had a look for an alternative, I think this works..

DessertStorms ,

Being better trained bastards doesn't make them any less bastards.
They serve capital, not you.
The fact that you haven't had the collective chance to find that out yet (or, considering the examples op provided, which I'm sure are far from the full extent of the problem - deliberately ignore the problem) doesn't mean it isn't the case.

ACAB

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